Dos And Don'ts Of Online Dating

As someone who has used dating apps in the past, I've picked up a few things along the way about what you should and shouldn't do on them. Granted I'm still single to this day but I've met people previously on dating apps and it started off well. I thought I'd share some useful tips on the dos and don'ts of online dating. Let's get started.

Do keep it real

Be yourself and share your interests. The important thing when it comes to online dating is to be yourself and don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. Sharing your interests and hobbies may intrigue people to want to talk to you because it shows you care about things and also they might have the same interests as you so you’ve got something to talk about. Plus it’s easier if you just be yourself.

Don’t share too much personal info 

That goes without saying by keeping it real but don’t share too much personal info. I never share where I work because the last thing you want is someone from a dating app tracking your workplace. Stick to the job title and that’s it. Same with the obvious things like your address because you never know what people’s real intentions are on the app. Be wary who you give your number or social media out to also. Make sure you know you’re actually going to go on a date and you’re sure the person seems genuine. This can be a tricky one but if they are genuine they’ll understand if you don’t want to give out your number yet. 

Do share a couple of photos of yourself

Honestly the first thing people look at on every dating profile is the photos because it’s easier to scroll through and look. It also makes people realise that you are a real person. I’m always sceptical about one photo because I instantly think of catfish. I know it’s not always the case but you never know. I feel like people are more likely to match with you if you share a couple of photos of yourself.

Don’t include group photos

Honestly, the worst thing a profile could have is lots of group photos because the other person is working out which one you are by who is the common person in the photo. It’s confusing and always switches me off. It’s like cool you have friends but which one are you? Have one group photo if you like but don’t have loads and include one single photo of you. You won’t get very many matches.

Do be open about your intentions

I think the majority of us who go on dating apps, our intention is to inevitably find love. Be honest about what you want with people you’re talking to because the other person might feel the same way as you. Of course don’t force anything on the other person because not everyone knows what they want. Some may want a bit of fun then something serious, some may want to take things slow then progress into the long term. It’s good to know what you want but also be open to adapt and change. Initially you may think the person is okay then find out later on that you both want different things. Be honest with your intentions when it comes to dating and the right one will come.

Don’t lose your dignity  

What I mean by this is if something matches with you but doesn’t say anything to you or if you send a message and don’t get a response. Don’t then spam the person with messages because that will only make the person like you less. The right one will be eager to respond or respond when they’re ready. Everyone has lives and aren’t always glued to their phones so don’t expect instant replies. If you feel like you’re obsessing over messages and whether someone hasn’t replied yet. It’s time to take a break from the app because you’re going to impact yourself by overthinking every little detail. It’s all about trial and error when it comes to online dating. Another thing, don’t send naughty pics because honestly there’s nothing worse and you don’t know who the person is really. They could share the image with other people. Don’t do it and if someone is pressuring you to send one because they sent you one then honestly they are not worth it because they don’t respect how you feel. Like I said, don't lose your dignity when it comes to online dating. 

Do go on dates but in public

It’s scary when it’s decided to meet up for a date with a complete stranger. It doesn’t seem real when you’re chatting away on the app. The conversation is going well then yes you should meet up for a date. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy. I’ve had a few great first dates that involve going for food or having a drink then going to the arcade or a walk around, chatting away. Bonding over different things. A lot of first dates have gone so well for me that I had a second date. Only one time I never got that second date but that’s life. Although, I’m obviously not an expert as I’ve been single for over a year now. Don’t let that stop you, if the date is fun, casual and in a public place then you’re already off to a good start. Do whatever feels right for you. Sometimes things happen in the moment when you’re together. Just go with the flow. It’s definitely going to be awkward at first but soon you’ll both find your feet. I had a first date where we went bowling and honestly it was just amazing because we got competitive but also had a good laugh. I’ve also had a date in the arcade which again was really fun just winning tickets. Definitely broke the ice. I think dates are better when they’re fun and not so serious. 

Anyway, those are my dos and don’ts of online dating. Let me know if you have any other ones in the comments below that I’ve forgotten to mention. I’d love to hear it.

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Megan x

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